具體描述
The first make-or-break step in persuading anyone to do any thing is getting them to hear you out. Whether the person is a harried colleague, a stressed-out client, or an insecure spouse, things will go from bad to worse if you can't break through emotional barricades. Drawing on his experience as a psychiatrist, business consultant, and coach, and backed by the latest scientific research, author Mark Goulston shares simple but power ful techniques readers can use to really get through to people--whether they're coworkers, friends, strangers, or enemies. Getting through is a fine art but a critical one. With the help of this groundbreaking book readers will be able to turn the "impossible" and "unreachable" people in their lives into allies, devoted customers, loyal colleagues, and lifetime friends.
用戶評價
##工作和生活上都很有用。
: F718/G699
##想讀列錶清除計劃——第二本。好書，值得反復看。有半本書讓我有種在讀卡耐基的《How to win friends and influence people》續篇的感覺。作者本身是一個psychiatrist，於是闡釋問題從神經科學入手，又有非常實際的應用場景以及非常實用的處理步驟。可以說在有些層麵徹底改變瞭交流時的思考角度（當然還有許多要提升的地方）。很贊的書。就好像是之前看瞭一兩年理論，現在開始看實踐，又有一種一塊一塊知識拼圖拼起來的感覺。
##劉未鵬老師推薦的溝通讀物。很通俗易懂，連英文都不難讀。前麵對大腦皮層的科普知識很有用。
##Perceiving is believing. Misperceiving is deceiving. And worse yet, prevents achieving.‖ U know it's okay to be afraid.‖ It doesn't take long for me to get fed up with this kind of book. What a shame.
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##Just listened.
##想讀列錶清除計劃——第二本。好書，值得反復看。有半本書讓我有種在讀卡耐基的《How to win friends and influence people》續篇的感覺。作者本身是一個psychiatrist，於是闡釋問題從神經科學入手，又有非常實際的應用場景以及非常實用的處理步驟。可以說在有些層麵徹底改變瞭交流時的思考角度（當然還有許多要提升的地方）。很贊的書。就好像是之前看瞭一兩年理論，現在開始看實踐，又有一種一塊一塊知識拼圖拼起來的感覺。
##非常practical的一本書，很多技巧，好的是有很多例子，最後一個section整閤瞭差不多所有技巧，很受用，看完心態也平和多瞭，感覺對於生活中很多自己總是害怕去做的事情都有瞭點兒信心，比如reach out strangers，其實還是有很多技巧可以去做的，當然關鍵還是得臉皮夠厚，願望夠強烈，功課做的夠細緻，纔能真正用好那些技巧，:)