Drawing on psychology, family studies, sociology, communication studies, and neuroscience, Intimate Relationships is a comprehensive and current overview of relationship science written in an engaging and accessible style. The seventh edition of this best-selling text includes new, thought-provoking teaching tools and over 600 new references.
##每个人都应该读的教科书
##quick notes: 1) gender difference small 2) self-esteem affects perception 3)conflicts tend to arise due to actor/observer diff, kitchen sink behavior. 4) self-consistent evaluation from partner vs. self-enhance 5) attributions to internal, stable factors cause conflict 6) inter-dependency theory (reward, cost, alternative, equality) 7) power
##quick notes: 1) gender difference small 2) self-esteem affects perception 3)conflicts tend to arise due to actor/observer diff, kitchen sink behavior. 4) self-consistent evaluation from partner vs. self-enhance 5) attributions to internal, stable factors cause conflict 6) inter-dependency theory (reward, cost, alternative, equality) 7) power
##二刷
##很有借鉴意义。
##Based on solid scientific study, this book is very informative. Worth reading several times!
##有些俗语原来是有点道理的 读到最后一章怎么有股给therapy做广告的意思
##断断续续看了半年总算看完了, 很多论据论点都可以generalize到friendship, coworker relationship上 - TLDR就是大家都是人嘛. (因为写的太真实太科学太客观,所以看了以后依然对婚姻没有任何憧憬,with a passion 🌚
##读了之后有种晋升的感觉… 这种理性冷酷的视角怎么能让人不喜欢!