Nationally recognized communication expert Debra Fine reveals the techniques and strategies anyone can use to make small talk-in any situationDo you spend an abnormal amount of time hiding out in the bathroom or hanging out at the buffet table at social gatherings? Does the thought of striking up a conversation with a stranger make your stomach do flip-flops? Do you sit nervously through job interviews waiting for the other person to speak? Are you a -Nervous Ned or Nellie+ when it comes to networking? Then it+s time you mastered The Fine Art of Small Talk.With practical advice and conversation -cheat sheets,+ The Fine Art of Small Talk will help you learn to feel more comfortable in any type of social situation, from lunch with the boss to an association event to a cocktail party where you don+t know a soul.
##很有收获。
##听完的有声书,还好是闲暇时听的,不值得细读的一本书。这本书所谈的道理可以在其他更经典的书中印证,比如name, eye contact, be the first to say hello,be interested in others, open-ended question。还是要在实践中不断摸索调整。掌握small talk的技巧很重要。
##be the first to say hello...
##社交工具书
##好吧 研究生入学前选读的 还是有点作用的 逼着自己去跟不认识的人谈话 就是走出自己的comfort zone 是提升自己的重要途径 不社交 无前途啊 !可惜真的好难好难一直做到,认识陌生人,扩大交际圈
##好吧 研究生入学前选读的 还是有点作用的 逼着自己去跟不认识的人谈话 就是走出自己的comfort zone 是提升自己的重要途径 不社交 无前途啊 !可惜真的好难好难一直做到,认识陌生人,扩大交际圈
##Tips 都挺尴尬的,问题其实在于对大多数人并没有 genuine interest。所以得先 fake 一下,以 small talk 作为过渡,说不定就能发现真正的 genuine interest,顺利进入 real conversation。
##听完的有声书,还好是闲暇时听的,不值得细读的一本书。这本书所谈的道理可以在其他更经典的书中印证,比如name, eye contact, be the first to say hello,be interested in others, open-ended question。还是要在实践中不断摸索调整。掌握small talk的技巧很重要。
##It is kind of boring and a little bit cliche, but still good for those who didn't get the skill of small talk.